speak slowly and make no assumptions....... I'm a noob with children to vouch for me.

All of the patches are installed in the correct order and Crysis runs fine. The MWLL mod is installed per Inous's The "Ultimate" Beta Tips & Installation Guide from the General Discussion board.
MWLL crashed with vid card driver problems every time I tried to load it. (newly installed Geforce GT220 with 1gb ddr2, updated drivers) I disabled my Kaspersky antivirus and MWLL worked once and only in spectator mode. ?!?!? I had no option to play just spectate. It was like dry humping watching the game.
The second time I tried to run MWLL with Kaspersky antivirus disabled it crashed with same vid card driver issues as before. Again I tried Inous's The "Ultimate" Beta Tips & Installation Guide -Crashes- section and deleted the shaders directory and the "My Documents\My Games\Crysis" directory and the game worked fine. Problem is that I am still stuck in spectator mode. Every time I boot the mod I have to delete both directories or the mod will crash. Every time I am stuck in spectator mode. I have witnessed some awesome games.

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Anybody have any ideas?